What does it really mean if he's busy with work? | Men and Dating

There are plenty of other good guys out there waiting for someone like you. He just might be the type of person that can't disappoint people or say know or maybe he doesn't know what he wants.

When he tells you he is too busy with work, it may be because "he's just not that into you". You may have to be the one to tell him to hit the road and that you are moving onto improved things. Remain calm and amicable. Perhaps the two of you can still be friends. Just because the two of you are not compatible in a relationship together does not mean that you cannot get along with one another.

If he is insecure and likes to have girls available, he will likely tell you he is too busy with work to spend time with you. This allows him to keep his options open. He may be afraid of commitment and would rather date around before settling down. You can choose to accept this behavior and date around as well or you can tell him to find you when he is ready to make a commitment. If it is meant to be, he will be more than happy to commit himself to you in a full-fledged relationship rather than keeping you dangling on the side waiting for him to call or come by for a visit.